So I went on a hyperfocus spree of setting up metrics and dashboards for some of my personal hosting crap.

Just noticed a weird thing: I have a caddy server that reverse-proxies to some stuff I run. It looks like something is hitting my server with requests for domains that I've never owned or hosted. Maybe it's that my server's IP was recycled?

@GossiTheDog I mean, heck that's just like 8 video game downloads these days

@jrwren Man, I love that cover

@capnseasick BRB, I need to go start a Next Generation CSS Uitility Framework that I'll call Beanwind

Sometimes when i feed the cats, i like to let them sniff the food scoop like i’m a sommelier or kibble or something

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@genehack 🐳 šŸ’„

I love how often window and desktop management breaks for me in new & exciting ways in macOS, these days. What a magical operating system

Seems like a new quirk gets introduced every version or two. Lately, I have to unplug & replug the thunderbolt cable on my laptop just to get Mission Control to work again after waking from sleep.

And sometimes, when doing that, macOS just... loses some windows. Like, they're no longer anywhere to be found on any monitor or in mission control. Or sometimes they're in mission control but shoot off into the void when I click on one.

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That thing when a library e-book comes up as available after months on my wish list, but I'm already 1/3 through another book that was on my list for months. And I don't think I can finish them both before the loans expire 😱

(yes, I will probably resolve this with airplane mode, but that feels like cheating)

Hot take: Defederation is feature, not a bug. Not everyone needs to talk to everyone all the time.

@earth2marsh Yeah, but that's just a minimum delay. Usually puts it back in the queue for the next few months again

@earth2marsh Yeah, I think it also depends on the library too. A bunch of books I'm after, they have only 1-3 "copies" licensed and sometimes 20-100 people in line with holds šŸ˜…

@Alairthephoenix oof, can't even imagine. We stayed so long with with a cat we'd only had for 6 months, they almost had to kick us out (they didn't but yeah)

This kinda lines up with another quiet hot take I have: I'm not very fond of bridges between networks like ActivityPub, Bluesky, Nostr, etc. Maybe on a user-by-user utility basis. But, as a network-wide thing, there's too much context collapse.

Like, sure, from a tech lens they're just protocols carrying very similar data. But, from a user lens, they're communities and cultures, even if accidental and implicit.

@iBallesty Well, if it's just defederation, the content remains on either side of the defederated divide.

If a node itself dies, yeah everything goes with it.

mh-; us politics

Between the pandemic and the Trump administrations, I'm expecting that the 2020s are essentially a lost decade for so many things. It'll probably take a few more decades to recover, if possible :blobsad:

@slothrop I see a lot of folks disagreeing with the sentiment whenever some instance decides to defederate 🤷

Weird when my brain surfaces a sudden urgent need to listen to a 25-year-old album I haven't listened to in a long time

youtube.com/watch?v=Ldc6aGZ2IL

Ohhhh, Nutopia is what my brain really wanted

"alive to the universe - dead to the world"

"flashing memberships to clubs so exclusive, nobody belongs"

youtube.com/watch?v=ZjYy5kN4glQ

2025/06/06